Relationship Numerology Question: “My boyfriend and I have the same destiny number, a 6. Is there any connection? Will this guarantee that we will always stay together?” —April
Answer: Great question April. When two people have the same destiny numbers (the sum of your birthday numbers) in a relationship, it has its challenge as well as brilliance. You could feel like soul mates, yet at times, with similar fears and insecurities coming up, there can be many lessons. So, having a 6 destiny number, (or life purpose) there is a deep love and connection, yet you must remember not to smother each other, or lose your self in order to please.
Having a destiny of 6 is all about love, compassion and service. You would make a wonderful teacher, healer and counselor. Working with community, children and as a philanthropist will bring you joy and success, You are a nurturer and someone who people trust and want to connect with. Whatever you do, you will be happy when it is dealing with people. As long as you are following your passion, you will thrive. The challenge of 6 destiny people is that they want to please and need to remember to love themselves first and not act only to help someone else.
Compatibility and challenges
Having a partner with the same destiny, the 6, can make you feel like you are soul mates because you get each other. You both come from your heart and can be very affectionate. You could actually work together in business if you love what you do and can separate with different tasks, thus avoiding competition and jealousy.
6s can tend to care very much what people think and put themselves down with judgment and feeling less then. You can be of great support to each other as you encourage each other to shine. But if you come from a place of “how can I please him” and feeling like his needs and desires are more important than yours, you will become resentful eventually. This is the trap of the caretaker. Having two caretakers in the relationship needs much work to make sure you you are honest with each other. Also, ugh, you will both need to be assertive, and make decisions. Sigh, the six often goes along with what everyone else wants to do.
What to do?
Best bet is open communication and encouragement and self love. At least a daily check in. “How are you doing?” And really listening as well as sharing yourself honestly.
I cannot promise you will always stay together. There is no number combination that can predict this. As with life, it depends on both of you. Hope this helps:)
“Do you have the same destiny number as your partner and want to know about your compatibility? Relationship numerology can help. Ask me about your destiny numbers in the comment section below.You can learn about your destiny with this Find your destiny calculator here.
If you would like to do a numerology reading with me to learn more about your numbers through your birthday and name, I would be honored to work with you. Here is the link. If you are interested in a compatibility reading with you and your partner, contact me at [email protected]
Other topics you might enjoy: