Relationship Numerology Question: “My boyfriend and I have the same destiny number, a 6. Is there any connection? Will this guarantee that we will always stay together?” —April
Answer: Great question April. When two people have the same destiny numbers (the sum of your birthday numbers) in a relationship, it has its challenge as well as brilliance. You could feel like soul mates, yet at times, with similar fears and insecurities coming up, there can be many lessons. So, having a 6 destiny number, (or life purpose) there is a deep love and connection, yet you must remember not to smother each other, or lose your self in order to please.
Having a destiny of 6 is all about love, compassion and service. You would make a wonderful teacher, healer and counselor. Working with community, children and as a philanthropist will bring you joy and success, You are a nurturer and someone who people trust and want to connect with. Whatever you do, you will be happy when it is dealing with people. As long as you are following your passion, you will thrive. The challenge of 6 destiny people is that they want to please and need to remember to love themselves first and not act only to help someone else.
Compatibility and challenges
Having a partner with the same destiny, the 6, can make you feel like you are soul mates because you get each other. You both come from your heart and can be very affectionate. You could actually work together in business if you love what you do and can separate with different tasks, thus avoiding competition and jealousy.
6s can tend to care very much what people think and put themselves down with judgment and feeling less then. You can be of great support to each other as you encourage each other to shine. But if you come from a place of “how can I please him” and feeling like his needs and desires are more important than yours, you will become resentful eventually. This is the trap of the caretaker. Having two caretakers in the relationship needs much work to make sure you you are honest with each other. Also, ugh, you will both need to be assertive, and make decisions. Sigh, the six often goes along with what everyone else wants to do.
What to do?
Best bet is open communication and encouragement and self love. At least a daily check in. “How are you doing?” And really listening as well as sharing yourself honestly.
I cannot promise you will always stay together. There is no number combination that can predict this. As with life, it depends on both of you. Hope this helps:)
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the person i love and I have the same destiny number .. 8. Also, he is 8.5 years older than me ! he loves me back too but our relation is under distress due to a lot of factors. i feel this connection is something else. this is it. but every situation is against us. i feel this connection has future. he has decided to back off but we cant stay away from each other.
i believe in numerology a lot and I need your guidance on this..:) thank you in advance. hope you help! 🙂
The destiny of the 8 is success and power in every form. .It is being out there in the world as a charismatic leader…Can you relate? The only shadow of the 8 is when you both have different about what you want to do or what you believe in…. Then Fire! lol. The best bet for you is to cool off, breathe, drink some water and speak to each other while you understand their side.
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Hi,
My fiance’s DOB is 26/7/1987 and mine is 8/4/1990. Reduction/ sum of our birth numbers ending up with 8 and 4. Our destiny number is 4 and the front number is 8. How will this work? Can we have happy married life? Looking forward to hear from you. Thank you
My boyfriend and I have life path numbers of 16 reducing to 7, and we both have destiny number 9.
Great question. My first question to you is what do you see is the difference in life path and destiny?
In my pythagoras studies… I see the destiny and life path the same… calculated by adding the entire birthday numbers together. It is what you came here to learn.. what brings you joy.
In this case, if your birthday numbers add to a nine… you are both either connected and on the same wavelength or it can be a challenge .
The 9 is all about transformation, completion and change. Your purpose in life is to see the bigger picture.A deep and psychic understanding of the world. Most of the time, you are on the same wavelength with similar interests. If you two have a different agenda, which happens at times in relationships.. the lesson is to hear and respect the others’ opinion.
You may find this post interesting https://numerology4yoursoul.com/?s=Destiny+9 If you want to find out more contact me for a reading https://numerology4yoursoul.com/numerology-readings-greer-jonas/
Hmm, what about me, life path 3, destiny number 9, and her, life path 9, destiny number 3?
She is also my Moon, my Descendant, and the first girl that I have ever loved.
Now she’s back into my life, and I’m not sure if we’re supposed to be only good friends as we did move on.
As a side note. The one I consider to be my Twin Flame, has life path 5 and destiny number 4. She is the 2nd girl that I truly loved, and the one that I can never really forget, move on from (completely).
I think that I am also her North Node.
Have you seen these correlations before?
Hello Raz, interesting question. First let me clarify ‘destiny’ and ‘life path’. Some numerologist look at the “destiny” as the sum of all the numbers in the birthname and “life path” as the sum of the birthday numbers. I look at lifepath and destiny as the sum of all the birthday numbers, while the sum of the letters of the name is called “expression number” Expression number is how a person expresses themselves in their life while destiny (or life path) is what the person came on this planet to do or be in their life.
That being said: Having interchangeable life path and expression number can be very helpful in partnership with a strong and understanding connection.
Life path of 9 is the crown chakra- seeing the bigger picture, a spiritual vibration which is all about intuition and transformation.
Life path of 3 is the throat chakra. All about creative expression in every form.. art/speaking/writing.
A 3 and 9 can communicate very lovingly as long as they enjoy a connection and inspire each other. Each lifepath is to explore and to understand in a way that is unique. If there is discord, it is probably because you are not seeing the your partners point of view. With respect and Without judgment, you can learn and inspire.. enjoying the creativity and spiritual understanding that each other possesses.
My and my boyfriend both have the same destiny number of 5.
Hi Selena, Thanks for your interest in my site. So both of you have a 5 destiny. You must totally enjoy each other.. Both have charisma, love to dance, go out, and have fun. Thing about people who have a five destiny, is that they enjoy attention and if you both are like that, you may burn each other out. Or decide to go for a walk in nature, and slow down and enjoy the walk, with nothing else to do. Remember to breathe! The key is to hAve respect for each other and the willingness to compromise. If you would like to know more, My relationship reading for the two of you is very helpful and inspiring. Here is a link to the many readings I have to offer. Namaste https://numerology4yoursoul.com/numerology-readings-greer-jonas/
Hello my twin flamw and i have the same life path and souls urge can you tell me what this means ??
Thanks for the question Aisha. First let me say, as I have said in many of the questions on my blog, that many of the words in numerology have different meanings.. The “life Path” in my definition is the destiny — he sum of the birthday numbers. This is all about what you came here to do and aspire to. “Soul’s urge” (or “heart’s desire”) is the vowels added together. To me, this means “What is in your true heart.. before the way you were brought up or studied. It represents what is in your ‘soul’. So when your twin flame and you have the same life path and soul’s urge – you probably really ‘grok’ each other because you came here for the same reason. Your heart and path are the same. It can be very beautiful or difficult especially when you are going through a challenging or emotional time. Compassion is the key.
Me and the one who i loved the most we both have the same disteny number “5” so pls could u pls tell me what does this indicate???
HI Zozo,
With a destiny of 5,you will probably both be very energetic and enjoy being out in the public, entertaining, being with people, and travel. I could guess that you would have lots of fun together and be passionate with each other.. Only issue would be if you push each other’s buttons with both enjoying different activities or ways of looking at things.. Then there can be friction.. as both of you are fiery. Can you relate? See this post for more about the destiny 5.. also the comments. https://numerology4yoursoul.com/what-is-your-destiny-number/destiny-5/
Hi, my prospective partner and I actually have matching life path numbers(4) . Is there anything you could tell me about this?
Hi Jordan,
If you and your partner have the same life path numbers (sum of your birthday numbers/reduced to a single digit) of four, it is the challenge and the brilliance as long as you work together.
The four is the builder, they like everything in place and love a beautiful home. The four is very grounded. If you too inspire each other and work together, it is a great relationship. The challenge is that often times the 4 is controlling and wants everything theirw way, which could cause friction if you do not have sharing and supportive communication with each other. Can you related:)?
Hello me and my boyfriend have same destiny number which is destiny number 9
The question i want to ask is it is okay right? To date Someone with same destiny number
Mine date of birth is in 2000 19 june and his is 1999 dec 5 please inform me.
Ah, a 9 destiny number is someone who is psychic and logical at the same time. They see the bigger picture and often is very spiritual and enlightened. Now the challenge of two people being 9. is that can you get anything done? Do you analyze everything? Here is a link to find your destiny number.https://numerology4yoursoul.com/what-is-your-destiny-number/
Hello!I am born on 11.dec.1987,
my husband on 22.april.1984 and
our son on 23.nov.2012,we all have number 3 as destiny number.What can you tell me?
Thank you!
With you all having a 3 destiny, your main life’s purpose is to be creatively expressive. Be it art, music, writing or speaking. Being creative makes you happy. Do you feel like you are doing that? With your Husband and son also having a three, as long as you inspire each other without judgement, it is a very affable relationship. If you would like more information about your destiny, name, karmic numbers, etc. See link on this post.
Me and my crush have same destiny number 3.will we both fall in love with each other.plz reply
Hi Rathi,
I cannot promise that you two will fall in love. I can let you know that with a 3 destiny number, both of your paths are the creative 3. Three is all about creative expression in every way, be it art, music, performing, writing or connection with others. You most likely inspire each other and enjoy each other’s company. As long as you don’t push each other and tell each other what to do, you will do well together. Hope this answers your question. I do also have relationship readings that help you more. But of course, that would be when you get really serious. Many blessings, Greer
We were doing good. I didn’t even know his destiny number is 11. We’re kind of in a rough place now, because of our different prospective on raising our kids. :/
Ah, that makes a lot of sense. Try to work with each other and hear each other’s side.. that will help. Best, Greer
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We were doing good. I didn’t even know his destiny number is 11 until recently. We’re kind of in a rough place now, because of our different prospective on raising our kids. :/ it’s veen hard. he wants to walk away but I want to get counseling
My boyfriend and I have the same Master Number 11! Can this be good?
Hi Tyshel,
wow same destiny number 11? Well I would say, yes it can be excellent. 11 is all about divine inspiration. (Ala Barack and Michelle Obama) So as long as the two of you are encouraging and respecting each other on your individual paths, you will both soar and be inspired by each other. Shadow is competition and judgment.. That could weaken your relationship.. Continue to listen to each other’s prospective. How is it going so far?
I also have another question. Does changing your name affect the numerology chart? Or it remains the same from the moment of your birth name?
HI Georgia, So changing your name does have an effect on your numbers, but you look at both charts to get a full reading. Your birth chart is one aspect and the name you are called is another.. kind of like you are born under the influences of your parents, but when you set out, you get different experiences and have different values, etc..Does that make sense? Look at Marilyn Monroe..(shy, yes!!!) https://numerology4yoursoul.com/marilyn-monroe-numerology-and-power/
Hey, me and my bf have the same life path number of 7, same destiny number 7, and same hidden passion number 9. But all the other numbers are different. And our astrological chart seems like an opposited attract but also in a way of complementing each other. What do the numbers mean though? Any insight would be appreciated.
HI Georgia, the seven destiny or life path number is a bit tricky. 7 is the unique non-conformist. They seem to be mysterious at times, spiritual at other times and mostly seeking the unknown, that which is not obvious. Sevens can be intrigued by each other as you may have similar “not typical” interests. However, the seven can tend to be introverted or not very social, so you will do great in a room together or a long walk in nature, but it is a challenge for both of you to be out there. Do you encourage each other to take chances? This relationship can be either challenging or fascinating as long as you encourage each other and do not judge.
There are many talented people who have 7 destinies, and the reason they are successful is that they have moved beyond the “I want to be left alone” and into the mantra “I don’t care” lol.
Check out this link. https://numerology4yoursoul.com/what-is-your-destiny-number/destiny-7/
I’ve never looked into numerology until now and I just discovered that my fiancé and I both have the same destiny number 7. Your thoughts please?
Hi Natalie, it is very interesting to connect with the destinies of your loved ones. In fact, I do a comparative relationship chart that you might find very interesting. The destiny of 7 is all about spirituality and connecting to the inner mysteries of the mind. You both are non-conformist, yes? As long as you are in align with each other’s passion or respect your differences,you are great together. Sometimes 7s retreat, so honor that about each other. Does that make sense? Please let me know if you would like to work with me on a relationship chart for the two of you. Many blessings for 2019 – the year of creativity! https://numerology4yoursoul.com/2019-numerology-the-global-year-of-creativity-3/
Me and my boyfriend having the same destiny number 9 and my Fate number 2 is matches with his soul urge number 2.
Does it mean anything?
Hello Manya,
it is so interesting when you and your bf have a similar destiny number. When I do charts, I find other aspects that also show how you challenge each other and are attracted.
The 9 is all about seeing the world in the bigger picture. Not just looking at what is seen but delving into the unknown. This fascinates both of you. It is also the psychology of people – what makes each person move through the world. You analyze everything.. yes? You are both like spiritual warriors… Now together.. you are probably attracted to similar things and conversations are so meaningful. I would say one challenge could be when you disagree on something.. are you stubborn and want to be right? Or do you challenge each other and accept each other’s opinion and inspire each other to move on their own path? Sharing twos help you to be very attracted to each other .. challenge might be being fearful to hurt the other’s feelings.. Hope this helps.. Let me know if you are interested in a relationship reading.. where you will find a lot more about each other and how to inspire each other to grow. Many blessings, Greer
hi .i love a guy alot whose destiny number is same as mine i.e 22.
plz tell me what does this mean and what does this specifically number show?
thank you
Hi Fatima, Oh so very interesting. 22!!! 22 is the master number of relationships and love. It is the master builder of connection. Twenty-two is the master arbitrator, counselor and healer. So as long as you two continue to inspire each other and listen, really listen to each other, than you will soar together. It might be a bit tricky if you both have different ideas of what life, communication, and relationship is about. Each of you may have strong values. Do you conflict? If so it is so very important to sit down, look in each other’s eyes and let each talk while the other listens. Can you relate? Here is a link about the 22 destiny. https://numerology4yoursoul.com/what-is-your-destiny/destiny-22/
Let me know if you are interested in a reading to learn more. I offer compatibility readings as well. many blessings on your beautiful soul:)
My husband & I both share the same master number 22 life path. There is nothing in any numerology book or internet site about master number match ups. Do you know anything about it
Hi Donna, Interesting question. Sharing a master number! 22 is mastery in connecting with people and building. Very powerful number. See this link for others who have this number. http://numerology4yoursoul.com/what-is-your-destiny/destiny-22/. I would say that you are inspired by each other’s brilliance for sure!!! You could even do something together and build a strong company, but you will need to have separate focuses. Competition is not your friend. The 2s strive on good workings with people, not controlling, but inspiring others and delegate. Think the brilliant writer/tv producer Shonda Rhimes. So how are you and your husband compatible with each other? Do you enjoy stimulating conversation, or are you at conflicting ends with each other when you disagree? You might be interested in a compatibility reading with me to find out more. I am sure you will be fascinated!!! Contact me at [email protected] for more info. Many blessings and enjoy your dear 22/4 husband:)
Hi Greer, please help me check if my fiancé and I are compatible… I was born January 2,1988 and my fiancé name is Nadia, November 5, 1992. Thanks
Hi CHarley, Lets take a look at both of your destiny or life purpose numbers. (Add the numbers of your birthday)You- 1+2+1+9+8+8 = 29/11. Nadia 1+1+5+1+9+9+2 = 28/1. I see both of you have ones in your destiny, which make you both leaders. You having an 11/2, The 11 is a master number of inspiration and leadership. You also get along with people very well (2) and are probably very charming. (Think President Obama or Michelle Obama — both have 11/2 destinies). Nadia has a one destiny like Maya Angelou and Steve Jobs – both take were take charge leaders in their field. I think you two will be very compatible as you will inspire each other and encourage each other to grow. The challenge might be if you become competitive with each other and want to come first. Best bet is to continue to communicate your needs and support and empower each other. Take a breath before trying to push your idea.. make sure both are happy before acting. Make sense? Let me know if you are interested in a compatibility reading. I would be open to give you an engagement discount:) let me know. Here is my email address: [email protected] Many blessings and congratulations! Greer
How about someone with 3 life purpose and 33. How’s the compatibility ?
HI Gina, great question. 3 is all about creativity and self expression. Connecting with a fellow 3 can be wonderful as you both are inspired by creative work, conversation and outlook in life. The challenge could be when you do not share your voice. When you feel silenced. Sometimes, that is our own doing, but the 3 needs to speak their truth. Encourage each other to share and appreciate each other. If you are interested in more intimate understanding of the two of you, I can help with a relationship reading. Contact me at [email protected] and we can talk more about special rates and what both of you could get from the readings. many blessings, Greer
My husband and I both have a destiny number of 1. What can you tell me about our compatibility ?
HI Janice,
how very interesting. Having the same destiny, you will thrive in the same way. It might be a little tricky though having two One’s under the same roof.. lol. You are both leaders and inspirers, but might be a bit competitive? 1s can want things there way. The best bet is to really listen to each other and connect in a way .. how can I support and inspire you? With this connection, you will be always challenging each other in a good way:) Does this make sense to you? Many blessings, Greer