“Dear Greer: So I did the numerology on my girlfriend and I. We have so many of the same numbers! Since we have the same destiny number, are we destined to get married according to numerology?
Both: Destiny number 1, Karmic challenges: 2, 3, 8. My personality and hers: 2 and 8. My soul and hers: 8 and 2. “—Kelly
Greer: Well Kelly, this question is very full. And it sounds like you are well informed about numerology given all the information you provided. You ask: Are you and your girlfriend destined to be married if you have the same destiny number?
Can you predict your future through numerology?
Even if I had your charts in front of me I would not answer this question. I am a firm believer that with the many lessons we have been given, through our upbringing, our numbers, our astrology chart as well as the challenges we have had in this life time and others, one cannot predict the future. It depends on what you do with what you have. It all depends on the qualities each of you possess and how you use them.
That said, I can say that with two of you having a destiny of 7, you both are searching for your inner truth. Looking at spirituality and the unknown and what is unique in the world is the path of the 7.
How will the two of you relate to each other? What gifts will you give each other and what aspects are challenges? All to be revealed. In some ways having the same destiny can cause conflict. As you are both so inward, you may need an outside source to help you open up. Or, on the other hand, you can inspire each other to grow, to reach for the unique path. You can use your challenges and help each other learn and overcome them.
With all these numbers being the same, I find this extraordinary. In my plus 30 years of experience as a numerologist, I have seen clients that have many aspects that are the same.. and there does seem to be a karmic connection —that they came here to learn from each other. It is a fascinating journey, not all are up to the task. Here is a post on relationships with same destiny number. Relationship Numerology: My boyfriend has my destiny number
Hope this helps!!! Greer
Same Destiny? Here is Great Example:
Michelle and Barack Obama have the same Destiny
A brief synopsis. Both Michelle and Barack have an 11 destiny. This is the destiny to make a difference in the world as a leader and inspirer. Both of them, well educated lawyers, certainly illustrate this leadership. President Barack Obama, as the first Afro-American president leading the United States through 8 years of seeking equality, justice and freedom for all. Michelle, the first Afro-American first lady, lead the way in many causes for women, education and health. They inspired each other to be fair and to be fearless against all obstacles. And to look past the norm and into all possibilities and potential.
The 9 appears a lot in both of their charts. This is the value of the spiritual warrior, to look beyond, to see the bigger picture of the way the world is now. I do believe they inspired each other to be visionaries. Read more about the 11 destiny and the Obamas.